Category Archives: Life in Madison

From my personal side of life – living in Madison, WI with my wife Ena Urbach and our dog Lola.

Past two weeks in review

I returned from the EDUCAUSE Annual Conference two weeks ago. I came home to Ena home sick with a cold. I came down with the same virus on Sunday after my return. I have been sick ever since. I’m in week 2 of this thing. The last week was the week of “is this cold still hanging on?!?” Thursday and Friday were absolutely gorgeous weather-wise. Fall is in full swing so I decided that I would ride my bike into work regardless of the cold. So I coughed and needed to carry a ton of tissue, I am going to ride my bike in… PERIOD.

While I’m on this rant: I find driving in very annoying. It takes me 5 to 10 minutes longer to drive to work that to ride to work.

>On the plus side of driving: You can carry stuff in that is hard to carry on your bicycle (like 4 12-packs of mineral water – that would really suck to carry on your bike). When you get in, you don’t need to change clothes and your not sweaty. You only have to think about one set of clothes in the morning – the ones you will wear at work not the ones you will ride in and the ones you will wear at work.

> On the minus side: other drivers who think that they “really need to get to place X regardless of traffic conditions or the fact that there is another car in the place that they are attempting to move into. The fact that you have to buy gas usually when you don’t really want to stop and fill the car up. Stress just builds up when you drive – there is no place for it to go.

>On the plus side of biking: Stress gets released as exercise. You get to see the world and smell the world and feel the world. You sense the seasons changing and that there are more than four seasons something like 12 or 8 – I’ll have to write about that sometime. It is faster. It doesn’t use gas. You get a work-out on the way in and the way home. Cycle-time is a great time to get your brain in gear or wind down. It is an excuse to buy gear like jerseys, gore-tex jackets, computers, cool lights.

> On the minus side of biking: You have to get dressed in gear, pack clothes for work, get undressed from gear, get dressed in work clothes, work, then reverse the process. You don’t arrive at work in “ready to go” state – you arrive in “all geared up and somewhat sweaty need to cool down, clean up and change clothes” state. You can’t carry as much stuff.

It is much better to ride to work. I hope to ride up to December 1st. There are people here who cycle year around – I’m not kidding. 24 below zero and there are bikes on the road. Eight inches of new snow and there are bike tracks on the road before the plows. And these are homeless, don’t have a car people – they do this by choice. I’m not that gnarly. I may make it to December 15th. We’ll see.

Back to the main thread of this post.

So I get sick on Sunday. I have to give a presentation on Tuesday afternoon at the Wisconsin SOA (Service Oriented Architecture) Summit. I spent most of the rest of that week running into work for critical meetings in the morning then running back home to sleep and try to recover from this cold.

In other news: I’m playing a new game (for me) – Tropico 2 – Pirates Cove. This is a simulation game (sim) where you are pirate and you try to run and island and grow a pirate economy. It is pretty fun. It has sucked up hours of my evening. One night – the night we switched from Daylight Savings as a matter of fact – I stayed up until 12:30AM playing. I looked at the clock – it was 9:30PM. I thought, “I’ll play for a while”. Next thing you know, it is after midnight.

So that’s been my last two weeks. Sick. Work. Finally back on my bike. Playing a new computer game. What else is there?

– Jim

Small Dog Halloween

Small Dog Electronics is an on-line retailer where I like to shop. They send small plastic dogs with your order. They have a picture of Lola on their site. Anyway. They had a Halloween costume contest. The winner for most original costume was Don. Check it out. It is a hilarious costume.

– Jim

Book – “Never Let Me Go” by Kazuo Ishiguro





I just finished reading Kazuo Ishiguro’s Never Let Me Go This is a somewhat melancholy study of three student’s growing up. Their prosaic childhood angst and issues offset the true issue within the book. It was a steady, well-paced story that was slow and gently laid out. The narrative style was like a wide and deep river with a glassy surface that hinted at the darker forces underneath.

This is the story of three children growing up at a special school called Hailsham. Kathy, the narrator of the story, tells of her years at school and the friendships that formed between her and Ruth and Tommy. These students live outside of society in a somewhat idyllic setting where a dark truth is always held just outside consciousness. Their tale explores what is it to be human, the need for hope even in for the hopeless and the way our society justifies its most gruesome actions.

Was it a fun read? Not especially. Was it a good read? Definitely. Ishiguro paints a slow, rich and deliberate picture with fine detail that, once you step back, you enjoy the final outcome.

– Jim

World66 – States I’ve visited

This is a pretty cool web app – World66 – Visited States

Here is the map of the states that I have visited. I didn’t count lay-overs in the airport as actually visiting 😉


create your own personalized map of the USA

Maybe too much business travel

I just arrived in Orlando Florida for EDUCAUSE. I’m presenting at three different sessions (two on Identity Management and one on Folksonomies, Virtual Organizations and Enterprise Information Management). I just got into my room – a very middling Best Western Motel which is just fine but not great – when I started thinking about heading back home. Maybe I’ve been on the road enough recently. We were in Door County for the first part of September. I went from there to Philadelphia for a week. I was in Onalaska, WI for another meeting last week.

I have a trip in November (Information Technology Management Council) and one during the first week of January (Common Solutions Group) already on the books. There is another one out there in January – CalConnect Roundtable – on the 9th and 10th in Provo Utah that I will probably be sent too.

How do the salespeople do it? I’m now a Silver/Elite status flier on Northwest. I can’t imagine being Gold or Platinum – those 100,000 mile a year people. It helps if you are in a really good hotel. My hotel in Philly was a dog and this one is just okay. The hotel needs to have a really good work-out room. Being able to get a workout in daily really makes business travel a lot easier.

From the world of multitasking – I’m watching this shows on Geisha’s and this factoid just went past – the Geiko (one of the levels of geisha) will need three wigs and each wig cost $5000. That’s right, $15,000 worth of wigs.

Iraq war veteran post

On my old blog iMind version 1.0 I had written a post about three short on-line movies including one which was a slide show tribute of pictures from Iraq.

I had a comment posted the other day. I’ll quote it below. Kimberly, if you read this; why don’t you write about your experience? If you want, you can send me posts and I’ll place them here on this blog.

I hope that you stay safe in your tours of duty and that you will find peace when you are home.

>You can’t know what it’s like to come home from there until you’ve been there. I have been there 3 times now. And I watched the video and listened to the music and I watched and listened over and over and over. You just don’t know until you’ve been there. The video and music are truly a beautifully awesome tribute. I am going to buy the CD.

>Kimberly

Triple Posting Pictures

I have a flickr account for photos located here: My flickr photos. I also have a .Mac account where I post photos which is at: My .Mac Account Homepage. I also have gallery installed on this site which I use to post photos that I want to include in posts. It is located here: Gallery on jimphelps.info

I find myself triple posting pictures. I like to use .Mac because it is quick and dead simple and my friends and family know to look at that site. I like to use flickr for the tagging / folksonomy / social software aspects of the site. You can also automagically include photos from flickr into WordPress (the software used to run this site) though I haven’t configured that yet. And there is gallery, which is the easiest way to get pictures in-line in my posts on this site.

Triple posting pictures sucks. Each site has their own strengths and weaknesses. Any one have thoughts on this?

– Jim

p.s. Comments are moderated but they do get approved and posted.
p.p.s. Unless they are spam, then I delete them and I think evil thoughts about the spam-bastards who post them

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Longer than…

Just drove across the state to Onalaska, Wisconsin. On the way, I was surfing the FM dial looking for tunes for the trip. I forgot to charge up my iPod before I before I left and the battery died about 90 minutes into the trip. Ena and I swapped cars for the day so she had my car which has an iPod charger and my iTrip. Re: the original iTrip – it kinda sucks. The sound quality isn’t that great and you have to play a song file to changes the frequency that it broadcasts on.

Back to the topic at hand. I was surfing looking for tunes as I was driving. There is lots of God and Country out here in Southwest Wisconsin. I did run across the Dan Fogelberg Song “Longer”. It goes something like “Longer than, there are fishes in the ocean, higher than the… etc.” It was a pop hit love song in… let’s see I can figure this out – 1976. I began to laugh. This song was a HUGE hit and was everywhere (at least in Salt Lake City) in my 9th grade year. That was the year of my very first girlfriend – Jennifer Mills. We heard this song everywhere we went. We joked (or where we serious?) that it was “our song”.

There was a brief rush of memories – walking in the Spring back to her house and we got caught in a rain storm that drenched us both in a couple of minutes. She was wearing a lemon yellow cotton top which was soaked through. We reached her house and she said, “I think I’ll change my clothes”. I said, “you don’t have to as far as I’m concerned.” She laughed. I remember her making a carob cake (better for you than chocolate) and her wearing Earth Shoes. It was those 70s I’m talking about. She was very cute. My brother and his friends all commented on how cute she was.

It is amazing that a little snippet of a ghastly puberty love song can bring back such a rush of memories.

– JJP

Confirming our World View

We have a 15 month old Labradoodle named Lola who sleeps on the floor in our room. We are watching Sushi for our friends who are house hunting in North Carolina. Sushi sleeps in the TV room which is directly below our room in her crate.

Last night Sushi woke up at 2:30 AM and began to cry, whimper and whine. Ena and I waited patiently for her to stop crying. The last thing I wanted to do was to reinforce that crying gets her attention. She had woken up when Ena got up to use the W.C. as they say over the pond.

We listened for about a half an hour to her plaintive cries. Then I said to Lola, “Lola. Go take care of Sushi”. Lola got up, padded down the hall and down the stairs and through the kitchen. Sushi’s cries let up and quite returned to the house. A couple of minutes later, Lola padded back through the kitchen and back upstairs and back to bed.

“Siiigh” wag wag wag kerplop, Lola went back sleep on the rug.

Ena and I were amazed. “She did it!”

This just confirmed our world view that Lola is the smartest and best dog in the world. Further proof!

– Jim

Friend Clouds

Good friends of ours; Julian, Marilyn and Darien Lombardi; are moving away to North Carolina for new jobs at Duke. The opportunities that they were offered sound wonderful and I can’t blame them at all for accepting their offers. I was thinking about how friends move away and how unstable our society is now.

My parents got married during World War II. When the “boys came home”, they went off to college at University of Utah with their friends. All of them lived together in married student housing. After graduating, the whole gang moved to Salt Lake City into the same neighborhood – Rose Park. This group was friends for the rest of my parent’s lives – 50 years I would guess. They got together for dinner and parties. They went through the bridge craze of the 70s and the original tiki party phase. They were together for almost their whole lives. They could talk and compare their life trajectories and the changes and shifts in their beings. They had people who knew them when they were “young” and whom they watched grow old. The had partners on this long path we walk.

I have friends from my childhood: Brian Durney who I first met when I was 4 years old, John Millsaps who I met at 15, Bill Lockhart (who is my brother’s wife’s brother) who I’ve known since I was 12 or so. I occasionally see these people. We have been scattered to the winds… well, John didn’t scatter too far – he is still in Salt Lake and Brian did scatter to the winds but he has returned to Utah, Bill is off-and-of in Utah. OK. I’ve been scattered to the winds. There. I confess.

I had a tight group of friends in Palo Alto, California. Jen is now in L.A.. Michelle is in Hawaii. Kat has disappeared but is rumored to be in Woodside, CA. Lisa works in L.A. and lives in Mountain View (that crazy kid). I have had off-and-of contact with Michelle and Lisa via chat (instant messaging). Jen has sent Christmas notes. But, that group was also scattered to the winds.

Ena and I had tight friends in Corvallis, OR. Peggy was killed in a car wreck. Others moved to Seattle. We moved away.

And now here in Madison. We had formed a good circle of friends. Mairead and Sharon, Julian and Marilyn, Keith and Kathleen, Scott and Gloria. Two of the pairs have separated. Julian and Marilyn are moving away. Scott took another job that has kept him very busy so we lost social contact for the Summer.

It seems that the circles of friends form and crack like ice on the rivers. We gather and have strength. We tighten and can carry each other then the heat comes and everything cracks and chunks flow away.

I envy the elder generation who had those lifelong friends to share their aging and growing, who saw each other’s children grow, who were there when times were tough or delightful. When I think back to all of the weddings in our family – the same crowd was there on the Phelps side. I saw the same crowd at the funerals for both my parents.

We may be upwardly mobile in our carriers but what a deficit we have wrought upon friendships.

We will miss you dearly Julian, Marilyn and Darien.